How to Combat Premature Ejaculation & Increase Stamina

February 23, 2010

When Bruce Willis was dead at the end of Sixth Sense I Jizzed in my Pants!

Jizz in my Pants is a genius reference for this article, by the way.

A lot of us have been there, some of us on both ends of the situation.  You’ve blah-blah-blahed your way through dinner, you’ve used all your lines to lure some hot piece of ass back to your place, you’re getting hot and heavy and then BAM — it’s over.  You’re laying there with one leg in the air, your chest covered in his load, and you give him either a sympathetic look of It’s ok baby or the less compassionate BAD DOG. Look what you did!!Now you’re laying there with your dick in your hand and he goes down on you almost immediately in a desperate attempt to get you off at motor-boat speed, and the whole time you’re thinking “Man…did I really just drop $40 on dinner..”

Whether you are the premature-er or the premature-ee there are actually a lot of things that can be done about shooting your spitball earlier than desired.  I’ve had a few e-mails regarding the issue of Premature Ejaculation over these last few months but have taken my sweet ass time actually addressing it here.  Sorry, I’m a lazy daisy.

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Healthy Open Relationships

January 30, 2010

An article was posted by the New York Times yesterday discussing open relationships.  The article revealed that a soon to be released study showed that 50% of gay couples polled were in happy open relationships.

The negative backlash to the topic of open relationships is something that practitioners and polygamists are familiar with.  It’s an argument that will often times draw anger from those that oppose open relationships, or at best elicit responses such as “I could never do it, but to each his own.”

The following is a brief example of why open relationships work for many, my responses to the various common arguments against responsible non-monogamy,  as well as a short beginners guide on how to develop an open relationship with your partner if that is the path that you choose.

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MANHUNT Daily: Lazy Bottom Resolutions

December 28, 2009

Check out MANHUNT Daily for my tips on being a better bottom in 2010!

MANHUNT Daily: Just the Tips with Yours Truly

December 14, 2009

One of my favorite gay blogs is MANHUNT Daily.  It’s sorta like Perez except instead of drawings of dicks on peoples faces there are actual dicks on peoples faces.  The babe who runs it asked me to contribute something to it.  I am beyond flattered!

I am in the process of writing my first sexual health book and happened to be on the chapter dealing with oral sex, so it felt appropriate to make that my feature.

Click through to read my tips on how to give better head at MANHUNT Daily — Just the Tips: When Blowjobs Suck.

P.s. Follow me on le Twitter @mebrandonb for my self-absorbed and often pointless tweeting!

Butt Love: A Guide to Comfortable and Pleasurable Anal Sex

November 12, 2009


As a gay man butt sex is almost seen as mandatory in a sexual relationship.  Blowjobs are really just a polite way of shaking hands before the act of sodomy begins.  However, we are never really told how to have butt sex.  We watch porn and see pictures, but beyond that learning how to have sex becomes a trial and error process — a process that we cannot afford in this day and age wrought with Sexually Transmitted Infections (STI).

You have your condom and you have your lube.  Now what do you do?

The following guide is for anyone interested in having anal sex.  Beginners, veterans and whores alike, tops and bottoms, there is something for everyone here!

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Bondage Essentials #7: Attire & Attitude

June 20, 2009

Congratulations!  You’ve made it through Bondage Week!  But before we wrap it up, we’ve got one more little chit chat to have about dressing up and acting the part.

Keep reading for some information on why dressing up and attitude are important to your role playing and basic core sexual energy.

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Bondage Essentials #6: Skin Stimulants

June 20, 2009

You are almost there, my little BDSM monkey in training!  You have the equipment you need to keep someone in their place, now how do you pleasure them in an equally kinky fashion?

Keep reading to see how you can stimulate your partner in several fun ways!

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